Life is full of bittersweet events, it’s hardest when it involves the people you love. I didn’t know how to feel, happy or sad. But today I learned that it’s important to be happy and celebrate the positive, and remember that it’s about positive growth and change in life. I learned you need to be neutral–to care without caring as the monks say. You can’t focus on your care for them which makes you sad, but focus on your care for their happiness, which makes you smile.